| 1. Look for solutions… |
not for blame. |
| 2. Focus on the problem… |
not on the person. |
| 3. Take a non-adversarial approach… |
not an adversarial one. |
| 4. Use dialogue… |
not debate. |
| 5. Focus on interests… |
not on position. |
| 6. Try for a win/win solution… |
not a win/lose one. |
| 7. Focus on change… |
not on control. |
| 8. Conflict resolution is a long process… |
not a quick fix. |