- What is your expectation for this meeting?
- I have 40 minutes for this meeting. After that I have to go…
- Let me get back to you. (Have a day and time stated.)
- We may agree to disagree. Let’s move on.
- You are welcome to call and here is my number.
- I treat you with respect. I’d expect you to do the same.
- I’m sure if your child was in that position you’d not want me to discuss
him/her with another parent. We take the matter seriously.
- You’re entitled to your opinion.
- Your help to have your child understand how to behave respectfully…is most
appreciated.
- Your help working with your child on decision-making…
- I appreciate that most parents work; however I am responsible for the safety of all students…
- Don’t worry; we are not giving up on your child. I hope you do not give up
on us.
- It is important for us to teach our students how to handle difficult situations.
- Working together for the benefit of your…
- Thank you for coming in and working with us to resolve…
- So, you are saying that (pause) and we need to work together to…
- Thank you for your concern. I will look into the matter and get back to you.
- Yes, I can see how you see things.
- Yes, you have a point there.
(Adapted, Barbara Bernstein, Sharon Wiesenfeld and Naeem Siddiq)